Maybe if we concentrated on developing character and self-discipline rather than giving in to childish urges to "express" oneself via hair or clothing (instead of through accomplishment), these kids would be better off. But hey, you're 14,15,16,17 or 18! You know everything and I'm sure you and your complete lack of experience and knowledge means you have something really special to say to us all! Please do go on!
Everybody is all in a tither about rights. Does anyone give a damn that a moral and complete education is about teaching kids responsibility and that they are NOT the center of the universe? We already have an entire generation of entitled whining crybabies demanding that they never have to suffer any consequences for the choices they make in life. How many more do we need to turn out before we realize that what we have been doing over the past 20 or so years isn't working?
But that's OK. You wear your hair however you like and wear whatever you want, kid. I'm sure the world will really appreciate your originality and fresh perspective. The world always adjusts to those who cry the loudest.
Yes, the dreadlocked are the new oppressed! Someone, ANYONE needs to speak up for these poor misunderstood souls! Perhaps we can do a march and a sit-in! That would be a lot of fun! Will someone bring cookies? I ain't coming unless someone brings cookies!
Seriously, if you want your kid to rise above his peers. I would respectfully suggest you teach him about work and responsibility before you worry about his precious self esteem as achieved through self expression.
Mike Rowe has a list that ought to be required learning in every high school in America. I'll leave with that and I'll stop following this thread. I wish you all Good day!
1. I believe that I have won the greatest lottery of all time. I am alive. I walk the Earth. I live in America. Above all things, I am grateful.
2. I believe that I am entitled to life, liberty, and the pursuit of happiness. Nothing more. I also understand that “happiness” and the “pursuit of happiness” are not the same thing.
3. I believe there is no such thing as a “bad job.” I believe that all jobs are opportunities, and it’s up to me to make the best of them.
4. I do not “follow my passion.” I bring it with me. I believe that any job can be done with passion and enthusiasm.
5. I deplore debt, and do all I can to avoid it. I would rather live in a tent and eat beans than borrow money to pay for a lifestyle I can’t afford.
6. I believe that my safety is my responsibility. I understand that being in “compliance” does not necessarily mean I’m out of danger.
7. I believe the best way to distinguish myself at work is to show up early, stay late, and cheerfully volunteer for every crappy task there is.
8. I believe the most annoying sounds in the world are whining and complaining. I will never make them. If I am unhappy in my work, I will either find a new job, or find a way to be happy.
9. I believe that my education is my responsibility, and absolutely critical to my success. I am resolved to learn as much as I can from whatever source is available to me. I will never stop learning, and understand that library cards are free.
10. I believe that I am a product of my choices – not my circumstances. I will never blame anyone for my shortcomings or the challenges I face. And I will never accept the credit for something I didn’t do.
11. I understand the world is not fair, and I’m OK with that. I do not resent the success of others.
12. I believe that all people are created equal. I also believe that all people make choices. Some choose to be lazy. Some choose to sleep in. I choose to work my butt off.